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Every year, 30,000 Americans take their own lives by committing suicide. At least 15% of people with depression complete the act of suicide, but an even higher proportion will attempt it. While depression is one of the most treatable mental disorders, it is also one of the most under diagnosed and under recognized. One of the scariest emotional experiences people suffer in their lifetime is to experience a severe form of depression. Over 1 in 5 Americans can expect to get some form of depression in their lifetime. Over 1 in 20 Americans have a depressive disorder every year. Depression is one of the most common and most serious mental health problems facing people today. Many people still carry the misperception that suicidal thoughts or behaviors are deserved -- that when a person has reached this point in their lives, there is no turning back. Nothing could be further from the truth. You can turn back. If you are thinking about suicide right now, you may want to visit this web page (http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/), or (in the United States) call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433). Depression is not a character flaw, nor is it simply feeling blue for a few days. Most importantly, depression is not your fault. It is a serious mood disorder that affects a person's ability to function in every day activities. It affects one's work, one's family, and one's social life. Today, much more is known about the causes and treatment of this mental health problem. We know that there are biological and psychological components to every depression and that the best form of treatment is a combination of medication and psychotherapy. Contrary to the popular misconceptions about depression today, it is not a purely biochemical or medical disorder. We have developed the information here to act as a comprehensive guide to help you better understand suicide and find out more information about it on your own. The Specter Of Suicide ; People Take Their Lives Not Over An Isolated Incident.(Buffalo News) Suicide
is usually talked about in hushed tones, if it's talked about at all.
But the topic was discussed openly last week after William E. Swan,
55, president and chief executive officer of First Niagara Bank and
chairman of the board of St. Bonaventure University, killed himself in
his East Amherst home.
It was the second suicide of a prominent local resident in less than
three weeks. On Aug. 4, John G. Hedges, 58, the Town of Tonawanda
highway superintendent, killed himself at his home.
Colleagues and friends said both men were hard workers and high
achievers who had been troubled recently by public embarrassments.
Hedges had been distressed by lawsuits filed by two Highway
Department employees who alleged that he had retaliated against them
after they opposed him politically, according to his wife, Sharon, and
several colleagues.
Swan had been criticized for not being more forceful in handling the
scandal over an ineligible basketball player that eventually forced the
university's president, athletic director and basketball coach to leave
the school. He left a suicide note saying that he had let down his
colleagues and the university, according to a law- enforcement source.
But while it might be tempting to say that these upsetting
circumstances caused the men's suicides, experts warn it's not that
simple.
Dr. Herbert Hendin, a Manhattan psychiatrist who serves as medical
director of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, says,
"The big mistake you see is that people look back at the
circumstances, and anything that could be disturbing to the person that
happened anytime close to the suicide is considered a cause.
"The idea that if it's connected in time, it's connected in
intent is not true."
According to the group's Web site, www.afsp.org, "The cause of
an individual suicide is invariably more complicated than a recent
painful event such as the break-up of a relationship or the loss of a
job."
Rather, Hendin points out that studies have shown that nearly 95
percent of the people who commit suicide were suffering from a
significant psychiatric illness at the time of their deaths.
"And even that remaining 5 percent is in question," says
Hendin. "Because you're making the diagnosis after the fact,
there's a chance that you are missing the symptoms or not getting the
information that would indicate that those people were suffering from a
psychiatric illness, also."
These illnesses can be undiagnosed, untreated, or both, according to
the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.
The most common illnesses that afflict people who die by suicide are
bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and clinical depression, says Dana
Fleischhauer, coordinator of the crisis counseling phone program at
Crisis Services in Buffalo.
In bipolar disorder, the person's mood swings abruptly from manic to
deeply depressed. Schizophrenia can cause hallucinations, delusions,
disordered thinking and unusual speech or behavior.
"You're not apt to have developed these disorders at age 50 or
later without having a long history of it," says Hendin.
But depression is trickier to diagnose and more likely to strike
unannounced, he says. "You can develop depression without much of a
history, or any history, in your 50s, easily enough."
So it's likely that most high-achieving people who commit suicide
"out of the blue" are actually suffering from depression.
Signs can be subtle
Fleischhauer says almost everyone, at some point, will suffer from
"a situational depression, where people become depressed over a
specific event, like the death of a spouse or another loss."
By contrast, she says, "A major depression is something that
will last more than two weeks, you cannot identify the source, and it is
disabling. You have people who can't even get out of bed in the morning,
can't decide what to wear to work. The pain can be overwhelming.
"On the other hand, the signs can be very subtle," she
says. "That's why we look for combinations of symptoms -- insomnia,
loss of appetite, loss of interest in things you used to enjoy doing.
And adolescents may manifest bad behavior, irritability and acting out,
so that can be even more difficult to identify."
Some other factors make suicide more likely, according to the
experts.
"About half of the people who are depressed and kill themselves
also have a problem with substance abuse," says Hendin. And the use
of drugs or alcohol doesn't have to be a longstanding problem, he says.
"There are people who start drinking after they become
depressed." Substance abuse increases suicide risk because drugs
and alcohol lower inhibitions and make an impulsive suicide attempt more
likely, he says.
"Insomnia is one of the symptoms of depression that correlates
highly with suicide," says Hendin, "and so does a lot of
anxiety.
"If you're depressed, then almost anything can become an issue
for you. But that's all because you were depressed in the first
place," says Hendin.
Even positive developments, rather than cheering up a depressed
person, "can actually function in the reverse," he says.
"If you're depressed and you can't feel any joy over your children
or your grandchildren, it tends to depress you more, and that makes you
feel more worthless and guilty."
Studies have shown that the presence of guns in a home makes a
suicide more likely.
According to the American Association of Suicidology, guns are used
in more than 60 percent of suicide deaths in the United States, and more
than 90 percent of the people who use guns in their suicide attempts
die.
"They can pull the trigger at a very vulnerable moment,"
says Fleischhauer. So Crisis Services recommends that guns be removed
from the house of a depressed person.
A person contemplating suicide may make oblique statements, such as,
'You'd all be better off without me,' but friends and relatives must
confront the person about his or her intentions, says Fleischhauer.
"The first thing we (at Crisis Services) say to a caller is, 'Are
you thinking of hurting yourself?' We bring the subject up directly. You
can't avoid it or change the subject -- you have to find out."
A suicide crisis, when a person feels a strong urge to attempt
suicide, generally lasts 24 to 48 hours, says Fleischhauer. If
necessary, a suicidal person can be committed to a hospital for his or
her own protection until the crisis passes.
"If you are a friend or relative, you have to let them know how
much you care about them and how much you would miss them if they were
gone, but also, if necessary, you can have them hospitalized," says
Fleischhauer. "People are very hesitant to do this, and we ask
them, 'Would you rather have an angry friend or a dead friend?' "
Men's problems
Men are more than four times more likely to die from suicide than
women, according to Hendin, but this does not mean that more men suffer
from depression.
"Women suffer from depression probably twice as much as
men," he says. "But women are nowhere near as likely to kill
themselves as men when they are depressed."
This may be linked to the fact that men and women usually choose
different methods of suicide, says Fleischhauer. While twice as many
women attempt suicide, "Men are more apt to use a weapon, such as
guns or hanging, which means they are more likely to die," she
says. Women tend to choose such methods as overdosing on medication or
carbon monoxide poisoning, which do not kill instantly.
Also, "Women will tend to go for help for their depression
before it's too late," says Hendin. "Men do nothing until it's
too late."
Why don't men seek help?
"The conventional explanation has some truth," says Hendin.
"Men are raised to think that seeking help is some kind of
weakness, and you don't do it."
As an example, Hendin uses the story of the 1993 suicide of Clinton
White House Counsel Vincent Foster.
"He killed himself one day after he'd gotten a prescription in
the mail for antidepressant medication; he may have taken one
pill," says Hendin. "People were shocked when it happened, but
as you heard his story, you learned that he was obviously depressed for
a year or so, and he had never gotten help. Finally he wrote to his
general physician, who sent him this prescription for antidepressant
medication."
It was too little, too late.
"What you will often see with men is that they make some gesture
at getting help, but by the time they make the gesture, they have
already given up anyhow, they don't believe in it and they don't give it
a chance," says Hendin.
'The black dog'
Depression, which Winston Churchill called "the black dog,"
strikes millions of people each year. Hendin says, "At a minimum,
there are 10 million people who are clinically depressed at any one
moment in the United States," and some estimates put that number as
high as 18 or 19 million.
The elderly and those with physical illnesses are most likely to be
among that population.
"Now, things happen -- things happen to everybody all the time,
there are very few lives that are free of stress," says Hendin.
"But when you are already depressed, you can't cope with it."
Medical experts now understand that depression can be caused by
chemical imbalances in the brain, and treated successfully with
medications that affect the functioning of brain chemicals called
neurotransmitters.
"There's no question that there's a biochemical factor in
depression," says Hendin. "You also see severe depression
running in families, so there is something that's genetic about it as
well.
"When you treat depressed people, you'll find that you cannot
treat them psychologically unless you treat them medically," he
says. "There are some people whose depression has such a strong
biological component that you can talk to them forever and see no
results, when within two weeks you can relieve them with
medication."
The signs of depression
One in six people will experience major depression at some point in
their lives. Major depression is the leading cause of disability in the
United States and worldwide.
Symptoms of depression can include:
Persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" mood
Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once
enjoyed, including sex
Decreased energy, fatigue, being "slowed down"
Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
Insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
Appetite and/or weight loss OR overeating and weight gain
Thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts
Restlessness, irritability
Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such
as headaches, digestive disorders and chronic pain Source:
National Institute of Mental Health
If you are in suicide crisis, call Crisis Services
at 1-800-562-0113 for help or 1-413-774-1000 to schedule an appointment
to see a counselor.
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